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      <description><![CDATA[The Spinster Cycle

I'm a 32-year-old woman with a Ph.D. I'm beyond happy with my career path, but I'm not meeting men I'm impressed with or inspired to see again. A girlfriend sent me a New York Times op-ed by a historian named Stephanie Coontz, who said that highly educated women can find a man if...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Have A Peasant Day

Your answer to "Roseless," the woman bemoaning her boyfriend's lack of "romantic ambition," hit a nerve with me. My wife of 19 years and I shared equally in raising our three children. She only sort of "works" now, but I do the home chores and all the cooking -- while running a v...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Looking For The Gaia Next Door

I'm an Occupy girl, age 45, into eco-shamanism and planetary consciousness stuff. I've mostly dated engineers with a playful side who initially seemed open to my interests but quickly became resentful of them. My boyfriend of two years is different -- easygoing and wi...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 07 Mar 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Some Unenchanted Evenings

My boyfriend lacks romantic ambition. In our two years together, we've never gone out to dinner someplace I can wear a dress and heels, and he never brings me flowers or does anything for our anniversary or Valentine's Day. I've suggested he pick out lingerie he'd like to...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Shove Thy Neighbor

My commitment-phobic boyfriend of several years is also my neighbor. I resolved to make it work with him and then caught him on FriendFinder exchanging numerous messages with some woman in Tijuana. He claimed he was just being friendly. I asked if he'd correspond with a guy. He r...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Dim And Her

I'm having a whirlwind romance with a man I met online on Thanksgiving. I moved across the country to live with him on December 20, and we're now building a life together. The problem is I have a high IQ (137), and he's very unintelligent and illogical. It's hard to have a good conversa...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Code Goo

I'm a 33-year-old nurse in a five-month "friends with benefits" thing with a doctor co-worker. I am only 18 months out of an abusive 10-year relationship and wanted something fun and light. We get along well, but he rarely asks me ahead of time about getting together. I know he has a busy...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Witchful Thinking

I'm a retired pastor in my 50s. A nearby church wanted my help with their Christmas musical, and I asked my wife of five years, who played bass at my church, to join me. She became angry at this suggestion and said I should do my own thing on Christmas and she'd do hers. She then...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[I Smell A Rut

I just got dumped by a guy who swore he was ready to settle down (after years of serial monogamy). His relationship history reminded me of the man you wrote about recently who had been married and divorced five times and was on relationship number six. Woman number six wrote you, "He'...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Brief-Stricken

A divorced male friend and I recently became "friends with benefits." However, I'm not receiving the same, uh, level of benefits as he is. He isn't giving me orgasms from intercourse, and his pleasuring of me is measured in seconds rather than minutes, despite my telling him that thi...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[The Cad Catalogue

Three years ago, I was divorced six weeks from a 22-year marriage when I got involved with a married co-worker and persuaded him to divorce his wife for me. He has been married five times and cheated on all of his wives. I have reason to believe he's still having sex with his ex-w...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Axing A Girl Out

You overlooked the danger when you replied to the woman who was invited on a hiking date by a man she'd had a crush on. You said that he probably got interested because he saw her with her new boyfriend. Well, he could also have wanted to murder her because of that. Every year, the...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Blister Wonderful

I'm starting to have feelings for this guy friend I've been fooling around with, but I'm worried he isn't feeling the same way. He's stopped short of having full-blown intercourse with me, which I find odd, although I don't want to have sex yet because I have genital herpes and I'...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Her Best Friend's Waiting

My girlfriend's best friend is her ex. They broke up six years ago (upon mutual agreement). She swears she's much happier being his friend and says they both feel they weren't meant to be romantic partners. Well, she clearly adores the hell out of him, and he's her go-to g...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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      <description><![CDATA[Pest Wife Regression

Two years ago, my man left his 22-year marriage to be with me, but he told me he loved his former wife and would always want a friendship with her. I accepted that (I'm friends with my ex), but I'm bothered by the amount of contact they have. They do have two adult children and...]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 04:00:00 MST</pubDate> 
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